LOVE TALKS BY DR. PAOLO BELLOSILLO

"We have the right love at the wrong time." -      Barry Manilow (Somewhere Down The Road)

Songs about love are sung since time in memorial. Anecdotes, poems and tales about love and their lover heroes were written all through-out history.  We get inspiration and even aspirations from them all.

  

Sometimes, you will meet someone and it works. Sometimes, you will meet someone and it will feel like God intervened and made you meet. Most of the time though, you meet someone and they break your heart into a million pieces and you start to wonder, "why me?" 

With Valentines just around the corner, we decided to ask Dr. Paolo Bellosillo who is known for advocating living a quality life to share his thoughts on how you can protect your heart from the greatest stressor in life, a heartbreak. 

What are the qualities that a woman should look for in a guy?

A woman needs to look for someone whose God fearing because if a man fears God, he will be loyal, faithful, committed, responsible, and honest. These are traits that any woman should want for in a man. A man like this will never make you worry or fear that he will go astray.

What are the qualities that a man should look for in their future partners?

A man needs to look for a woman who is capable of being their partner in life, not just in the bedroom. They need to find someone with a humble heart and someone who prioritizes their relationship over their pride.

How can you have a relationship that is good for both parties?

A relationship that preserves the dignity of the other person is always a good indication. When there is mutual trust and mutual respect, when a relationship is rooted in prayer and kindness then reinforced by communication, you know that it is beneficial to both parties.

What are your 5 tips for a healthy, smooth sailing relationship? 

1. Pray together. When God is at the center of everything, everything will fall into place. 
2. Communicate. As they said, almost everything can be sorted through an open and honest communication. 
3. Be kind. If you can't be anything, if there is no more love, then at least be kind. 
4. Be open. The two of you are not the same person which means that you will not have the same beliefs, the same principles, and the same ideologies. In fact, chances are big that you will have different ones so be open to understanding how the other person works. 
5. Let go of fear. Most of the time, we react negatively because of fear. 

Any tips to our readers for this upcoming Valentine’s Day?

Valentine's Day is primarily focused on the heart, on love but everyday should always take that into account as love is a journey and a decision which both souls builds on.  While the whole world celebrates it, do so in a manner where it focuses not on consumerism or material things because they fade. Be original: play a song, sing a song, cook with love for your shared favorite dish, go to the first place where it all began with your special someone, or go to church and why delay it, say I DO, tie the knot. Just make sure the other is ready and fits in the qualities and attributes of those listed above After All when you Look Through The Eyes Of Love You Should Be Bringing Out The Best Of Me/You, Here There and Everywhere.

Love is giving and sharing. Find it not hurriedly for it will come. Work on it and the magic will last more than a lifetime.  

"Love moves in mysterious ways . . ."      - Julia Fordham (Love Moves In Mysterious Ways)

*photos used were taken from Pinterest and google*

SBR.ph 2018 SEASON OPENS NOW!

January 26, 2018 marks the opening of SWIMBIKERUN.ph (SBR.ph) activities for 2018.  Held at the event center of the Century City Mall, the event was well attended by traditional and digital media practitioners and invited guests.

Gracing the event from the Department of Tourism is Mr. Frederick M. Alegre – Assistant Secretary for Office of Public Affairs, Communications and Special Projects, from Black Arrow Express – logistic partner, Century City Mall – venue host and The Big Difference communications (TBDC) – PR & Marketing partner.  This year, SBR.ph finds its new home in one of Century Properties venue, the Century City Mall – located along Kalayaan Avenue corner Salamanca St, Poblacion, Makati City.

Black Arrow Express (BAE) is the e-commerce arm of AAI Worldwide Logistics (formerly known as Airlift Asia Inc.).  Their leadership is also into the triathlon scene which explains why they support this kind and similar athletic event and activities.  Mr. John Walter Baybay, Chief Strategist and Vice President for Marketing and Communication gave an analogy showing the path of a tri-athlete and that of BAE as they do their work.  Century City Mall believes in the concept of fun sports which the TRI-series projects and carries which explain as to why they decided to become the venue host for some of the events of SBR.ph.  The recognition given to SBR.ph by the Department of Tourism is no small matter for both parties.  For the DOT, they are recognized as a local group responsible in making the sports scene of the country more dynamic and noteworthy for the sports-tourism actions of the department.  For SBR.ph, the recognition is equivalent to all the efforts that they have placed in making things happen for the sport and the formed community.

Asec. Frederick Alegre mentioned the various programs of the department in promoting not only tourism but also encouraging balikbayans to stay and be part of the whole activity of the department.  They are also willing to give recognition to groups, similar to SwimBikeRun.ph, who is adding value in the tourism field by attracting local and foreign participants in their respective field of sports done in the country.

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SWIMBIKERUN.ph (SBR.ph) is the brainchild of a Carlos de Guzman, a tri-athlete with a passion for the sports.  With the fire burning strong, a community is now formed that is continuously growing and inspiring lives.  SBR.ph is an online store that caters to the gear needs of tri-athletes and/or those that are simply into running, swimming and cycling.  He has shirts, socks, caps, drinking bottles, monitor watches, goggles, support straps and such made available on his site.  He can also give support to some cyclist needs such as wheels. 

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The press conference was held at the event center of the Century City Mall.  Hosted by the people of TBDC, the event started with a welcoming talk from Carlos De Guzman himself and was followed by a warm message coming from the DOT.  From there the whole calendar activities of SBR.ph for 2018 was presented to the media giving highlight to the results of the online nominations and the ongoing online voting which shall end on February 3,2018;  to the SBR Award’s Night on February 10 and the Expo on February 10 and 11 respectively.  Awards to be given in February are the following:

-          Elite Tri-Athlete of the Year (Men and Women Division)

-          Duathlete of the Year (Men and Women Division)

-          Age Group Tri-athlete of the Year (Men and Women Division)

-          Youth Tri-athlete of the Year (Men and Women Division)

-          Race of the Year (Below 800)

-          Race of the Year (Above 800)

-          Team of the Year

-          Shoe of the Year

-          Shop of  the Year

-          Tri-Gear of the Year

-          Bike of the Year

-          Coach of the Year

-          SBR.ph Hall of Fame Class of 2017

The first of all the races will take place in April which is the AQUAMAN (Aquathlon), followed by the DUAMAN (Duathlon) in May and capping it all off with the TRIMAN (Triathlon) in June; registration for all SBR events is now open to all interested individual and enjoy an early bird discount. 

 Happening to a near side-by-side with the Award’s Night is the SBR EXPO, a retailers event showcasing items all geared to the needs of a tri-athlete.  New retailers will join in the event showing their wares that are health related in nature that both athletes and non-sport minded individuals may be interested in. This is an open to all event, regulars of the mall can also enjoy the items offered on those days.

Part of SBR’s plan for this year is to launch a race event for kids and PWD’s – a group that shows promise in terms of growth, recognition and possible fair market locally and abroad.  Mr. De Guzman believes that the sport should be made open to all ages, sex and physical condition and still maintains the element of simple enjoyment without the normal pressure of a very dynamic and demanding sport.  He aims to bring the sport nationwide and have it set on the natural terrain of the province that he goes to.

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After a successful media launch, SBR.ph is all geared to release the results on the voting phase and is looking forward to see everybody during the two big events in February namely the Award’s Night and the Expo – a moment filled with fun, laughter and plain camaraderie in his growing community of athletes, enthusiasts and supporters.   

**photos provided by TBDC archive

SBR.ph Pre-Awarding Activity: Where and How to Make Your Vote Counts

Catch the latest activity in the SBR.ph Awards happening in February at the Century City Mall!  With Black Arrow Express as official logictics partner, Philippine Airlines as official carrier, The Big Difference Communications -partner PR and Marketing, Tourism Promotional Board and the Department of Tourism, SBR.ph is all set for its annual award's night.

The whole awarding started with the nomination stage. Now on its voting phase, community members and friends are placing in their voice by choosing who they think should be the one by going to http://www.swimbikerun.ph/5thSBRphAwards.

How not to get your vote(s) counted at the 5th Annual SBR.ph Award?

 Please double check your email as the voting is automated. You won't be able to confirm your vote if you entered the wrong email.

Voting Procedures :

1. YOU MAY ONLY VOTE ONCE.

2. Make sure to enter your CORRECT email as you will be sent a CONFIRMATION EMAIL.

3. You will need to reply with the keyword to validate your vote.

4. As an extra measure to prevent double votes and fake accounts, everyone is required to answer the simple question in the confirmation email.

5. Double check your email address as the confirmation email will only be sent once.

6. If we see you voted more than once, your vote will automatically be deleted along with your original vote. Your invalidated votes will then be deducted to the current count of the nominee(s) who you voted for.

Cast now your votes and be counted in the winning moment of your nominee!

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PR: MANILA -- GRAMMY AWARD WINNING VOCALIST PEABO BRYSON TO HEADLINE LOVE ROCKS! CONCERT IN RESORTS WORLD MANILA

2018 marks the 10th anniversary of LOVE ROCKS!, the concert series and what better way to spend this Valentines Season as Grammy Award winner PEABO BRYSON returns to Manila.  For one night only, fans can catch Peabo Bryson, “The King of Balladeers,” live in concert at the Resorts World Manila, Newport Performing Arts Theater, Tuesday, February 13, 2018, 8:00pm .

International recording artist J MICHAELS joins in this night of music and love as he returns to NPAT as co-headliner and host of the ongoing concert series.  Former Miss Saigon JENINE DESIDERIO will complete this fantastic lineup as special guest artist, all backed by the J Michaels Band under the direction of Maestro Danny Favis.  This night of love and the smooth sound of will also include a tribute to the music of Burt Bacharach, with each artist performing their favorite Bacharach tunes.

Having established a career as one of the premier male vocalists in contemporary music of the last quarter century, Peobo Bryson has survived and prospered despite the passage of time and changes in popular musical trends. With twenty albums to his credit, Peabo Bryson has enjoyed an unprecedented across-the-board level of international success, Bryson has the distinction of being the first artist in music history to have separate records topping four different charts all because of his beautifully rich, almost operatic voice.

Bryson was among the premier silky-voiced soul artists who emerged as the softer, more sophisticated urban contemporary sound becoming dominant in the '70s and '80s.Bryson enjoyed more success with “If Ever You're in My Arms Again,” “Can You Stop the Rain;” “Through the Fire” and “Unconditional Love.” Bryson won his first Grammy® Award in 1992 for his performance of the song "Beauty and the Beast" with Céline Dion. His second Grammy was awarded the following year for "A Whole New World" (Aladdin's Theme) with Regina Belle, being the only Disney song to make it to the Billboard top 100, and topping it at #1. With his tremendous crossover success, Peabo has transitioned into a world of international acclaim. Peabo Bryson is, at his intimate best, a legendary vocalist offering a timeless mix of pop and soul as only he can. Bryson has amassed a loyal fan base, critical acclaim and an avalanche of awards by being one of the “truly best friends” a song could ever have.

As lead vocalist and host of Love Rocks!, J Michaels is a Manila-born international recording artist and longtime showman who effortlessly shows incredible versatility in musical styles accompanied by some of the most talented musicians and backup singers. J Michaels has shared the stage with legendary rocks artists like Ambrosia, John Ford Coley, Dan Hill, Jimi Jamison, Terry Sylvester of the Hollies, Yvonne Elliman, Gary Puckett, Stephen Bishop and more. His online music videos, filmed on location in various countries, have quickly gained popularity with over 2 million new views in 2017, earning him fans worldwide, including many in Philippines.

LOVE ROCKS! is a trademarked concept show that has had great international acclaim and success.  Each show is hosted by J Michaels and features one or more Multi-Platinum and Grammy® headline artists.  The J Michaels Band has served as backup band for the Love Rocks!concert series pairing world-class concert and touring musicians with incredible guest headliner; fans can look forward to multiple shows as more great artists in the coming months.

This Love Rocks! Concert is presented in cooperation with Grand Leisure Corporation and Events by WEG Inc.

Tickets are available now at all TicketWorld outlets, Resorts World Manila Box Office, and online at www.ticketworld.com.ph

DYNAMO SBR.PH IN 2018

SWIMBIKERUN.ph (sbr.ph) is all set to bring the home-grown triathlon community into the recognition it deserves this 2018.  As SBR.ph enter its 8^th year, new partnerships came to front all geared for the growing local community’s recognition and growth.

First into the partnership are The Big Difference Communications, a PR-Marketing and Events Management, responsible in promoting some of the sports –related events in the country such as the Ducati race.  They are also responsible in promoting the Axe Black-Fabio, Hattendo, Samwon; to name a few.  Next into the partnership is with Black Arrow Express, the ecommerce arm of Airlift Asia Incorporated.  Black Arrow Express is all set in supporting the triathlon community – now focusing the home grown triathletes development. 

Part of the new partnership is Century Properties – Century City Mall, acting as venue host for the upcoming press conference for the triseries and the Tripalooza-Awards Night in January and February respectively.  Showing recognition to the growing community and activities of SBR.ph is the Department of Tourism (DOT).  With the focus attention on sports tourism this year, the DOT is showing recognition to the growing home breed of athletes in the triathlon field.

To give more excitement to the growing home-grown triathlon community is the creation of the triathlon activity for kids and people with disability (PWD).  Everything is in the works for this 2018. 

The tri-series event shall start this April and conclude in June, with a press launch this January and the home-grown community recognition night in February.  The tri-series shall be held in the Philippine Sports Plaza, Nuvali and Fontana while the pre-events is at the activity center of the Century City Mall in Makati City.  With the awards night, new set of awards are to be given out such as the Hall of Fame, Breakthrough Athlete as recognized by Black Arrow Express and a recognition coming from the DOT.

2018 is entering strong this year for the home-grown triathlon community as SBR.ph delivers things in style.   

IT’S MORE FUN IN THE PHILIPPINES WITH SBR.ph

Year 2018 is truly opening doors for SwimBikeRun.PH (SBR.ph) as the Department of Tourism (DOT) recognizes the effort and development of the group responsible in helping develop and promote local triathlon activities for home grown enthusiast in the said dynamic sport.

Carlos de Guzman, owner of SBR.ph, started this hobby turned business with simple passion in mind and heart.  What started as passion is now a driving force birthing more activities and the creation of a community committed to the sports of triathlon.  Now on its 8^th year with a good list of successful tri-series and triathlon community recognition event, SBR.ph is duly recognized by the DOT as a group driving the triathlon sports for local talents in the country.

ASEC. Frederick Alegre of the DOT and
Carlos de Guzman of SBR.ph

DOT’s thrust for 2018 is to promote sports activities in preparation for the SEA Games, making the sports activity a focused area for tourism.  With the triathlon growing community in the country, the DOT felt that this is a community worth giving a hand and an arm in line with this year’s department thrust.

This year, SBR.ph is set to do the tri-series events in the following venues:  PhilSports Complex, Fontana and Nuvali.  Each location shall set the place and pace for the Aquathlon-Aquaman, Duathlon-Duoman and Triathlon-Triman events in April till June.  For registration and more information on the above mentioned events, log-in at www.swimbikerun.ph.  Two events worth looking at is the triathlon feat for people with disability (PWD) and the kid’s category, which shall be made into reality in the succeeding months as stated by SBR.ph.

Spicing things up is the return of the SBR.ph Awards Night which is to be held at the Activity Area of the Century City Mall in Makati City.  Along with this is a whole set of awards such as the Hall of Fame Awards, the Breakthrough Award for new triathlon participant as given by co-sponsor Black Arrow Express and a recognition coming from the DOT; truly making it more fun in 2018.